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Dr. Steve May is a clinical psychologist, author, relationship educator, and speaker whose work helps gay male couples build stronger, more connected relationships. For more than 25 years, he has worked with adults and couples, combining psychological insight with practical tools they can use in everyday life.

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He is the author of Making Love Last and Making Love Last…Longer, books that explore relationship drift, shame, protective patterns, trust, intimacy, and the daily habits that help love endure. At the heart of his work is a simple belief: neither partner is the problem; the pattern between them is the problem.

Steve lives in Palm Springs, California, with his husband, Al. Their relationship of more than five decades has shaped both his professional work and his understanding of what lasting love really requires.

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