It’s Saturday morning here in London, and I'm up bright and early with coffee in hand. I’m getting ready to leave for the Heathrow...

I’m back at Starbucks in Soho today, enjoying the sunshine and drinking my favorite Starbucks drink a Grande Caramel Macchiato and still...

“Before starting off this blog id like to ask for your help. Many of you have purchased the book through Amazon but have not left a...

Walking through London this week, I’ve felt a buzz of excitement as the city prepares for its Pride celebrations this weekend, July 5th...

Today in London, I kept my promise to myself—to experience something new every single day. My adventure took me to two very different...

I’ve just arrived in London, sitting in my favorite spot at Café Nero in Soho. It's a perfect afternoon for sipping coffee,...

I’m writing this from my desk in Palm Springs, with suitcases half-packed and a flight to London just a few days away. I’ll be there for...

I’m writing this from our kitchen table in Palm Springs. It’s early, and the light is just starting to spill across the floor. Al is at...

Most couples who come to therapy say the same thing: “We fight too much.” Then they give me the laundry list. Money. Sex. Housework....

I’ve sat across from a lot of gay male couples in therapy who look like they’re doing just fine on the outside. They share a home. They...

Many gay men grow up with the quiet, constant message that something about them is wrong. That message isn’t always loud or obvious....

“We think we want sex. It’s not always about sex. It’s intimacy we want. To be touched. Looked at. Admired. Smiled at. Laugh with...

In my book Making Love Last , one of the guiding principles I emphasize is this: small changes lead to big results . This isn’t just a...

My life has been deeply blessed—with love, growth, challenges, and profound fulfillment. Over the course of 51 years together, my husband...

I'm delighted to welcome you to my blog—a dedicated space for exploring love, relationships, personal growth, and the unique experiences...