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“How Shame-Based Trauma Affects Gay Men and Their Relationships”
Many gay men grow up with the quiet, constant message that something about them is wrong. That message isn’t always loud or obvious....

Steven May
May 26, 20253 min read
It’s Not About Sex: What We’re Really Craving in Our Relationships
“We think we want sex. It’s not always about sex. It’s intimacy we want. To be touched. Looked at. Admired. Smiled at. Laugh with...

Steven May
May 14, 20253 min read
Small Changes, Big Results: How Tiny Habits Build Lasting Love in Gay Male Relationships
In my book Making Love Last , one of the guiding principles I emphasize is this: small changes lead to big results . This isn’t just a...

Steven May
May 11, 20253 min read


Why I Wrote the Book Making Love Last
My life has been deeply blessed—with love, growth, challenges, and profound fulfillment. Over the course of 51 years together, my husband...

Steven May
May 1, 20251 min read


Welcome to My Blog: A Journey of Love, Growth, and Authentic Connections
I'm delighted to welcome you to my blog—a dedicated space for exploring love, relationships, personal growth, and the unique experiences...

Steven May
Apr 23, 20253 min read
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